The destruction and desecration of gravesites disturbs my very soul and to see these old burial sites allowed to simply return to nature fills my heart with gladness…
The cemetery from the time when Elephant Butte Dam was being built (about 1916 but there are a few newer graves) is guarded by a couple of ‘no trespassing’ signs. No fence, just the fence posts.
And this is what they guard. This is the newer grave (R. J. Schmalhausen, 1861-1932).
Most graves that can be seen are just piles of rocks overgrown with cactus and creosote. This one had a nice fence once, but I think the cactus protects the grave more than the metal fence ever did.
Here’s an overview of the cemetery. Not many family members visit to put flowers on the graves. But the other day there were bluebirds decorating the area. Very nice.
I’ll link with Friday Fences, although mine are minimal.
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“Your tombstone stands among the rest
Neglected and alone
The name and date are chiseled out
On polished marble stone
It reaches out to all who care
It is too late to mourn
You did not know that I exist
You died and I was born
Yet each of us are cells of you
In flesh and blood and bone
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse
Entirely not our own
Dear Ancestor, the place you filled
One hundred years ago
Spreads out among the ones you left
Who would have loved you so
I wonder how you lived and loved
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot
And come to visit you.”
-Walter Butler Palmer
Walter Butler Palmer
Walter Butler Palmer was by born, 22 Jun 1868 in Prairie Center, LaSalle, Illinois. He was the son of Ephraim Milo Palmer and Sarah Henderson Butler. He married Irena B. Lardin on 25 Sep 1889. A year and a half later, Irena died on May 1891.
He married 2nd wife Mary Frances White on 11 Dec 1894 in Chicago, Cook, Illinois. They were the parents of two children; Burton White Palmer and Margaret Allison Palmer. He was a family historian, breeder of trotting and show horses, and an accomplished poet.
He wrote the above poem “Dear Ancestor” in 1906 whilst visiting the grave of his great grandfather; Ephraim Palmer (1760-1852).
Walter Butler Palmer died 6 Jun 1932 in Ottawa, LaSalle, Illinois.
PLEASE NOTE: This entire poem, clarification of the poet and his biography came from the following website for which I’m very grateful and happily acknowledge the source.http://www.tmgenealogy.com/2013/06/dear-ancestor-poem.html
Copyright © 2013. Catherine Ann Crout-Habel
South Australia has a new “Burial and Cremations Bill 2013” which had been “assented” but has not yet commenced because the Regulations have not yet been written which would allow it to pass into law.
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